Ok, so my back yard is a work in progress. When I first moved in, it was all overgrown and in severe need of some TLC. For the past 6 years, I have been working to get it cleaned up, but the weeds have a mind of their own. Three summers ago, my brother Kevin and parents took a stab at clearing it. Poison Oak ensued. Sometimes, I look forward to that first frost, just so I don’t have to look at them. When I had a corporate job, I was able to control them. Now that I work for myself, I’m afraid I can’t contain them. Once I make my first million, I am hiring a gardener….
I love to entertain and have parties for my friends. 6 years ago, embarrassed of my back yard, I moved the party to the driveway. Then I thought, “wow, this is really ghetto.” (you know those houses where everyone hangs out in front with old ratty couches and armchairs? This is the vision I got. I mean, what’s the deal with hanging out in the front of the house? I’ll tell you what the deal is- its fun!) And so, the driveway parties began…and they were a hit! They are affectionately called GDPs now and all my friends look forward to them. We sample new creations, eat chips out of the bag, drink copious amounts of wine and have a camp fire. I even have a plastic half mannequin (used to sell clothes on eBay) named Mona and sometimes she makes an appearance. It’s cheesy fun all in my driveway. Truly a site to behold.
The driveway parties usually start in April and yet we have not had one in 2010! Like my weeds, my new “portfolio career” has taken on a mind of its own. I am always doing some sort of work, if it’s not for me, then for someone else. And what I realized this weekend, is that I rarely take time for me…sharpen the saw, if you will. I find strength and peace from having driveway parties or hiking and kayaking. The things we do to sharpen the saw have a positive impact on other areas of our lives and if we don’t take time to do the things we like to do, then other parts of our lives suffer.
Dag Hammarskjold, past Secretary-General of the United Nations, said, “He who wants to keep his garden tidy doesn’t reserve a plot for weeds.” In other words, we reap what we sow…no more, no less. So, be proactive and take some time to participate in activities that renew your spirit. Your work and weeds will be there tomorrow! I know that mine will be! :)
If you haven’t sprayed your weeds yet, specifically your dandelions, try this yummy dandelion salad. It has lots of vitamins and minerals and the leaves are a great source of calcium. Who knew? Plus my salad has pancetta and gorgonzola giving you some of that TLC that you deserve.
Mangia!
Nina
Dandelion Green Salad with Pancetta
Salad:
* 4 thin slices of pancetta
* 6 cups chopped dandelion greens
* 1 cup chopped basil
* ¼ c crumbled gorgonzola
Heat oven to 350. Bake the pancetta until crisp- about 10 minutes (make sure to start checking after 5). Remove to a paper towel to drain and cool. Crumble the pancetta and mix in a medium bowl with the greens and basil. Set aside while you make the dressing.
Dressing:
* 1/2 fresh lemon, juiced
* 1/4 cup olive oil
* 1/2 teaspoon dijon mustard
* pinch of sea salt
Mix all dressing ingredients in a small bowl and then pour over the salad. Top salad with gorgonzola and serve!
M. Nina Piccini is the owner of Dinner Bella, Personal Chef Service and Catering in Rochester, NY.



